There are no "right answers" to indicate when a child is ready for self-care. These questions are meant as an aid to you in making a decision about your child's readiness. How your child responds to self care will depend on:- Age of the child.
- Maturity level of the child.
- Attitude about being left alone.
- Communication between parent and child.
- Does my child carry out responsibilities according to my directions?
- Does my child use good judgment?
- Does my child tell me about problems he/she has at school and home?
- Can my child easily reach me by phone?
- Are there other adults nearby who can help my child?
- Does my child feel comfortable staying home alone?
- Does my child express fears about being home alone?
- Does my child know personal safety and first-aid skills?
- Is our neighborhood generally considered safe?
Once you have decided that your child may be ready to try self-care, there are a number of important subjects to think about and discuss.- Make sure that your home is safe for children (especially think of poisons, firearms, medications, matches, cigarettes & alcohol).
- Determine procedures for the use of keys, locks, doors and telephones.
- Establish a plan of action in case of an emergency.
- Prepare children for safety at home and in the neighborhood.
- Establish guidelines for constructive activities for children to do when they are home alone.
Adapted from A Work/Family Directions Publication:
""I can Take Care of Myself". |